I decided tonight as I put together a meme on Cord Cutting that I should in fact write a blog post on it. Cord Cutting in a way changed my life, it made such a massive change in my relationships with people, past and present.
Anyone who has had some difficulties in a relationship with another, whether it be parent, siblings, romantic relationships or any other type of connection with another person will benefit from these notes i'm sure as much as I did when i first learnt of the amazing and liberating feeling of Cord Cutting.
So the big questions, what are cords and why do I need to cut them?
Yes that's right there are two types of cords.
When you first meet a person or form a relationship bond with them, you create two cords between you the first is a positive one, this one can never be severed because it is filled with nothing but a positive, spiritual connection . The positive cord is filled with beautiful energies of unconditional love, fun times, wonderful memories, warmth, affection all the scrumy things centered around love, and everything that is good about the relationship.
The other is the polar opposite the negative cord of attachment. This contains all the negative parts of your relationship that have ever reared their ugly head. For example this could be a negative attachment to an ex-lover. Maybe this lover deceived you in someway, all those feeling surrounding that experience are all encoded into the negative cord attached between you and that person. The feelings you may have felt when this happened could be one's of anger, hurt, negative feelings around self worth, energetic feelings of inadequacy in some way. Maybe there are feelings encoded into the negative cord around deserving some of the hurt, deception or wanting to please your partner/family member so much that they won't leave you, or that you choose to keep quiet, regardless of the toxicness of the relationship.
Even after you have removed this person/people from your life the cord still exists between you and follows you into your next relationship. The cord that is with you from that past relationship moves with you and can still effect you both in many ways. Maybe you can't stop thinking about them, even though you want to forget so much it just never goes away, or not as quickly as you would like. Maybe in your next relationship you notice the same sort of unhealthy patterns have followed you from the last. Those feelings of inadequacy, paranoia around being deceived or even people pleasing still seem to exist even though that experience with that particular soul is finished still seem to haunt you in a way, even though it's really not your reality any more. This happens because the negative energies from the cord are affecting your ability to move on by flowing through your aura constantly.
This is just one example of many that give you an example of how cords can effect our lives in sometimes dramatic and ways and prevent us from really moving on from a relationship. You can form cords with literally anyone you may have had a relationship with past or present. And having worked with Psychic Surgery and doing full clearings of aura's, cords and many other things I can tell you from experience that the longer or deeper the relationship the bigger the cords can be and the harder they are to sever. The cords in themselves can be extremely draining to the body in so many different ways.
Cord-cutting is a process that severs that negative energetic attachment between you and another person/people so that the patterns of that past relationship do not affect your behavior in the present or your ability to have a healthy strong relationship without issues that may not be a reality in this new energetic cord. This means that the anger, feelings of inadequacy, poor self worth, people pleasing, that were formed and caused patterns to emerge can be eliminated.
Be aware, there are many different types of relationships and just because we cut a cord to a past relationship where we have first become aware of specific behaviors in ourselves, does not mean to say that this behavior will be removed or disappear from our lives, as it could well have originally come from a childhood experience. What it can do is remove the energy of that particular relationship/relationships and allow you to breathe a little lighter in many other areas of your life as well as stopping the negative pattern that has formed with that particular relationship.
Every type of relationship is unique to the individual, our major cords attached are generally from lovers, parents, children, spouses (ex or present), best or close friends, abusers (sexual) or any other sexual encounters. Minor cords can be formed between, work mates, teachers, friends, acquaintances, even clients.
You will generally be able to tell the larger or major cords that are attached by the toxicity of the relationship. No matter how much you love the person, there will, has or is in this moment a negative part of your relationship that is extremely negative, exhausting or draining.
Remember Cord-Cutting is an experience for your highest good and DOES NOT remove the positive energetic cord at all. It's a win/ win I say and I wouldn't be without the skill in my life as it translates in so many ways and brings so much awareness to self when discovering the reason for the negative cord.
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Much Love and Blessings to all
Rebecca Fox R.M.